Luke Pettengill

Every couple has one fight they've had a hundred times. It's never about what it's about.

Couples who fight get all the sympathy. But after years of this work, the marriages that worry me most are the quiet ones.

If you are looking for a therapist who will promise to "fix" your relationship, offer you a list of communication tools, or spend three days trying to convince your partner to stay, you’ve come to the wrong place. At Everwell, we hold a clinical stance that often shocks couples when they first call us: We are not here to save your marriage. This isn't because we don't value marriage. On the contrary, as family systems therapists, we believe the preservation of a family is a high and holy...